Wanda SG But if they go for marriage preparation course, the couple is supposed to discuss the major decisions, including the issue of kids...then how, if cannot agree? BTW, we didn't go for that course.
elindra SG We didn't go either My parents kept urging us to go But we felt that if we are going to put everything on the table now It kinda spoils the fun on what to expect and ironing it out together And Mr Pinky Bear said it is only for couples who are unsure about their relationship
Meia Gisborn SG If the couple had sufficient foresight, they would have laid down all the terms and conditions of the marriage, including the desired number of children, in an ironclad prenuptial agreement.
elindra SG but that also spoils the fun out of it leh also I think people change and their views might change
av98m SG I've been doing my sums and I figure if I had kids I'd possibly be collecting soft drink cans in my old age Besides, kids are environmentally unfriendly
elindra SG Actually I did my sums and figured that too Especially if Mr Pinky Bear and me want to live our current lifestyle Not to mention the sacrifices -_-"
the Bear SG going through some sites.. i like this saying: A computer lets you make more mistakes faster than any invention in human history - with the possible exceptions of handguns and tequila.
av98m SG less sleep, more frustration etc I look at families out at shopping centres and restaurants and other public places and the parents always look so stressed and unhappy
Fatum SG I don't get it ... some janitors/security guards etc can raise 8 or 10 kids on a pittance ... and two working professionals can't afford to raise one kid ? ....
